Saturday, December 25, 2010

Day 15: What you would do if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant.

First off MERRY XMAS PEOPLE!!!!! Its been somewhat of a great holiday, I finishing this post as I was typing it earlier. Got sidetracked do to the family function at my godparents that has left me completely on "E", But to stay with everything else I had in mind with this blog challenge.

What would I do if I were to get someone pregnant?

If you would've asked me this in the 1st quarter of this year, I'd have told you "Fuck what you heard, its called the "Morning after Pill" Bitch!!". And I'm all for it, fuck a child" Which would've been completely ignorant of me, In which case accidents do happen if not prepared accordingly. Throughout my course of 2010, I can say I've let go of alot. Grown more mentally, its not me to sit here and reflect on these things given the personal "Ups & Downs". Hell, even looking back I reflect to honestly say this year went by very fast for me. That is not based off of the fact I spent the first 3 4-5 months of 2010 in & out a relationship, Though I only have had 2 ex girlfriends this year. (Distant laugh) that is another blog for another day though, now back to the subject.

If I were to get someone pregnant, I'd do the same I did as previously. (If you followed my blog 2 years ago, or reflected throughout to see where I've came) you'd know I'd stand up and start making moves for my child. Preparing for the arrival and future, which case now I do not have to worry about it. I'm always prepared, from condoms to spermicidal jelly and so on. Though accidents can still make their-self prevalent, in which case it shall be handled accordingly. Also with me being alil more selfish than I was in previous times, A child would complicate things further than what they are. Adding the fact I honestly do not care for women enough to fathom the though of pregnancy, let alone falling in love & being in a relationship. Which I will admit that I am totally petrified to do. I'd have more fun dating, even just having someone I could converse with when times are hard. Which I already have in my bff. So you have you answer to the blog, nothing more...Maybe less or a cop out. But that is it, I'm off to enjoy breakfast...Later people..Sincere Ray...And be on the lookout for "TheSingleTrio.Moonfruit.com" <~~A blogging site I'll be jumping on with 2 other people I jig with, in which case is underway and has two blogs. IF you cared to check it out...shameless plug I know.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Ahh man.... Children are scary additions to your life but they are worth it. They do show u the true definition of unconditional love... N with the right woman they are extensions of the love u share for her. I was scared. I wanted to b dreaming. I wanted to abort. But more importantly the moment I realized he was growin inside me I fell in love with him. N then a new feeling took over inside me almost instantly. A feeling that made me realize that although I hate his dad I love my son n i was willing to do it with or without any help n that's what I did n no I don't regret