So I returned with one more defining blog.

To My Unborn Daughter:

As I look around this blasted world and I can honestly say... fear for you my beautiful girl. It’s such a cruel place, it’s very unforgiving, also people seem so oblivious to how backwards we’ve been over the last decade. Though I believe you will be fine regardless of whatever is put in your way. Not because I’m an optimist (I’m a realist from time to time, borderline pessimist often), because I know where...more so who's loins you came from. Your full of people who will or have worked their asses off to make sure you WILL have all these tools to succeed in your life. I don’t know what hell you will do with those tools, but I assume you will use them to your advantage and make the most of all your opportunities. For if you do not, I'll still love you just for whom you are my beauty.

When you get to know me, I’m a man of my word, and I make sure that if I say I’m going to do something that it gets done. So I’ll only make one promise to you as my daughter: to do whatever Daddy has to do to make sure you excel. Even if that means playing the "bad cop" to your mother’s "good cop" and having you hating my guts, then fuck you... so be it, my daughter will be the best. Losing sleep, if I gain weight. If I start balding earlier than I should, we may have to reconsider this agreement, and ship you off to boarding school.

The other thing you will learn when you get older is that I’m pretty good at giving advice, and if I know you like I think I do, so understand I will give all your boyfriends hell, Fuck them for they will not mistreat my little queen. The male sex is quite rude, plotting. I know these things, Why you may ask? because...You should ask your mother. She's better at explaining that than I could for your little ears baby.

All men will disappoint you at one time or another, including myself.
I want you to know this up front, because some women do go through life thinking that the perfect man is out there. He doesn’t exist, my lil momma. I can tell you that there is a guy out there who'll love you like you deserve, and protect you from hurt, And even that man will disappoint you somewhere along the line because we are not perfect. Just work with him to make him the best that he can be. But remember rule no. 1.

I just wanted to share wisdom so that you will have a good foundation for what we called “The Life”. I don’t know what you all will call it, I can’t wait to meet you, and I hope that we will be able to talk about these and other topics one day soon. I love you.



- Daddy Domingo