Bare All Session 1

Ok so I like been on this emptying everything bing from both my old email and my current one, and I neglected to mention that I had got interviewed from a now long and out of commission blog. though i had a copy of it, I never wanted to posted it I would rather have people go to that blog to see it. which garnered me readers, this interview had taken place 03-26-10...and here it is. Enjoy...I call this the Roderic Bare All Session 1.


Interviewer: ok...

Interviewer: What is your biggest regret in life?

Harlem Hamalades: Outside of my felony, I would say...Minus the few gf's (Now Ex's). Umm not graduating HS. Only because of how I myself think, Like if I knew what I knew now. I'd been somewhere in someone’s university probably.

Harlem Hamalades: dig me?

Interviewer: ohhhh ok

Harlem Hamalades: So carry on

Interviewer: ok mr.ray

Interviewer: What do you feel are your greatest accomplishments?

Harlem Hamalades: Honestly, I dont have none besides gaining my GED. I told myself I have major accomplishments, but none greater that getting what I should've been had in memory of a now departed loved one.

Interviewer: Hmmm do you feel some comfort in holding that accomplishment? As well as where do you see yourself now tat you overcame that obstacle?

Interviewer: *that

Harlem Hamalades: Kinda sorta, Like I had a tiny sense of comfort. More so a relieving moment, that I finally gained. Some woman will want me even more now lmao, but deadass I see myself as back at square numero uno. Next up is the school thing....

Interviewer: Do you feel you will be able to put your self back in the race you have fallen almost last in? If so what are your goals in doing so?

Harlem Hamalades: Thats never been a issue. Alil of everybody has become stagnant. Or like some of my own brothers got kids or let certain things hinder them, I'm use to being the late bloomer or the "Clutch" guy if you will.

Harlem Hamalades: My goals in doing so...hmm. Is to show some of those people who stay counting me out, or prove alot of my ex's wrong. because some of them act as if you were to toss there shit into the air it would turn to sunshine, knowing damn well it will not. Dig me?

Harlem Hamalades: To further add to that I just want something to show I made it, with me applying myself. Also to bring home those who actually believe in me still that I got us, even though I might be late.

Interviewer: You spoke of a woman now deceased that was a major supporter of you and your dreams...Who do feel is your biggest supporter living and why?

Harlem Hamalades: My biggest supporter, I can name many of names. There will never really be just one, then again I'm fibbin'. Mary L. Dial and few other names that are associated with that.

Harlem Hamalades: Now as far as my biggest supporter living? I dont know, I use to claim it was one if not both of my ex's. Knowingly your going to ask me about that later in this interview, but yeah I really honestly do not know. I have not kicked back to even think of that, So if we meet again to interview or call this a "Roderic Ray Bare All Session" I'll be sure to answer that more indepth

Interviewer: hmmm...Clever avoidance for now. Well who is your biggest not supporter?

Harlem Hamalades: Lmao, some people who happen to see this. Probably some of the Males and females I strongly Dislike, such as one particular ex's parents. They had me utterly confused and it takes alot to do so, an out side of them to my other ex. Her whackass light skinned friend who I generally cant stand, like borderline hate...Sorry went off on a "Grind my gears moment"

Harlem Hamalades: Umm bottom line I would have to say I dont know its a lot of people out there who do not support me. Or wish ill will...

Interviewer: I see well its nice to see such a strong yet polite response...

Harlem Hamalades: Yeah I know right, lol thats media training 101. As I still have levels of respect for certain people...

Interviewer: Now that we have gotten to know you a lil better... Tell the people more about your music,love and sex life; since from what I have heard they all tie together?


Harlem Hamalades: Lmao, I wonder where you could've heard that from.

Harlem Hamalades: Deadass, my music is my life..Ya know just like every average joe says it but depends on who is listening, might take a deeper meaning.

Interviewer: Well please elaborate

Harlem Hamalades: Musically, I am musically inclined (To some people) to others. I'm probably just someone who never uses their talent for monetary value, It has always been a way to articulate emotion. or to relieve stress if need be...hell or just to get a certain woman or topic off of heart and mind

Harlem Hamalades: outside of me making music, I listen to it. but I generally listen to certain people for many a reasons. I assume you would like to go in on that also?

Harlem Hamalades: I was listening to a lot of east coast rap in general, just ever since a particular someone turned me on to Drake, Kid Cudi, Charles Hamilton, Show Tufli. Along with many others in that respective peer camps I've taken to Charles Hamilton the most.

Interviewer: So do you feel these artists sort of speak your story?

Harlem Hamalades: Yes

Harlem Hamalades: Especially Charles Hamilton....

Interviewer: hmm so why don't you go out and do it for your self?

Interviewer: Like tell your own story instead of them telling it for you?

Harlem Hamalades: I do, I have a blog. Self promo moment SincereRay.Blogspot.com most of the things on there, are highly accurate coming from my eyes, Even the wrongs, the ups, downs, highs, lows. This is when i meet certain people I tell them about it off top, as if its a favor to see what really goes on, Given I have updated my blog since febuary 10th 2010

Interviewer: hmmm...

Interviewer: Is there anything specific you want me to cover so the people get a more indepth look into who you are?

Harlem Hamalades: Your the interviewer I mean ask away, I'm always willing to throw alot of things out there the next or the last person will not leave out there.

Harlem Hamalades: so ponder questions while i run to the potty

Interviewer: ok

Harlem Hamalades: ok i'm back

Interviewer: ok

Interviewer: Well You spoke of 2 recent ex's can I get a compare and contrast of the two?
Harlem Hamalades: Umm wow, like I assume you did you homework and got the names of these two?

Interviewer: yes. Aj and Ray?

Interviewer: Pardon...Rae.

Harlem Hamalades: If you will, yes your pretty much correct. For namesake purposes...What would you like to know as far as me comparing an contrast of the two. Ask an I'll give

Interviewer: Hmm you really make this interview mor about me and my questions and this is about you

Interviewer: So give me compare and contrast of the 2 women (i.e. personality, body, love, passion, lifestyle, sex and others...)

Harlem Hamalades: Lol well interviews are supposed to be 2way you feel comfy as do i

Interviewer: i asked a question sir...

Harlem Hamalades: Well we can start with the personality of Rae.

Interviewer: ok

Harlem Hamalades: Persona-wise: she was at first, not to say outrageously shallow. But she was cool, very hardass. Kinda materialistic...An brutally honest to say the least.

Interviewer: continue...

Harlem Hamalades: Body, Lol..I wasnt really intuned to being picky about women. I'ma thick woman lover and she has thick thighs and some ass (She'll probably see this and laugh yet probably hunt me down) great eyes, and lips. Thats what really attracted me to her was her face

Interviewer: Hmm really ?

Interviewer: Tell me more?

Harlem Hamalades: yes, the ass came later. Her style was that of a high maitenance chick, the lifestyle was that of a party chick, afrocentric and a mix of other things.

Interviewer: Party chick you say? Well Is there more on this one or would you like to comeback to her and move to Aj?

Harlem Hamalades: We can continue I like to get them out the way in their respective order

Interviewer: oh ok tell more

Harlem Hamalades: Love wise, it was worth it. Even with the downfalls and ups.

Harlem Hamalades: She took forever to tell me she was in love with me if that was ever true, but then again most women I am emotionally involved with wait forever to tell me they are in love with me

Harlem Hamalades: Sex, Mmmm It was good. I could say beyond good, but that'll be another reason to probably shoot a frickin rocket to where I am.

Harlem Hamalades: It was worth, everything. Even the things we did not do, since we both nagged or were at each others throat due to the things done and undone during out sexual rumps.

Harlem Hamalades: Anything else you'd like to ask before I move on to AJ?

Interviewer: hmmm... Can I ask do you now why she was so guarded? Cuz her lavish lifestyle and confusing way seem to lead something bigger.

Harlem Hamalades: Clarify for me, you kinda lost me.

Interviewer: do you know why she was indecisive?

Harlem Hamalades: I believe I had a idea, then again its still things still foggy.

Interviewer: hmm ok well I guess thats all for Rae on to Aj.

Harlem Hamalades: Personaality, She was totally opposite of Rae. I mean from the music she enjoyed to the way she carried herself. Both highly intelligent women though.

Interviewer: hmm so elab...

Interviewer: What drew you to her?

Harlem Hamalades: umm just her persona, like she enjoyed video games. some anime and few other things

Interviewer: It seems you have less to say about Aj than Rae why is that?

Harlem Hamalades: Because I am not hesitant just trying to spit it out

Interviewer: Why?

Harlem Hamalades: but anywhom, her love was similar to that of Rae. just how can i say..a different angle since they are exact opposites

Interviewer: You requested this no holds bar interview, so spill?

Interviewer: I am an unbiased reporter i know neither of the 2

Harlem Hamalades: I am spilling, so anywhom body wise. she was more bottom heavy than Rae, probably had more tattoo's than her at the time.

“Interviewer” has signed back in. (3/26/2010 9:33 PM)

Interviewer: ...

Harlem Hamalades: Passion, She was more open. an more so action responding than trying to instruct, I would say it came more natural. but honestly It came natural with Rae also..just that most of the things she spoke about from past experience with other dudes kinda shot my confidence to be open about that

Interviewer: Hmm i see

Harlem Hamalades: hell me and Rae have just as many more memories if not tied as i have with Aj..

Interviewer: Well didnt you live with both at some point?

Harlem Hamalades: Given one does one thing different from the other, but i cant really divulge too much. An yes I did If you want to say that

Interviewer: Well why are you so comfortable telling Rae's biz and not Aj's?

Interviewer: Not that seems unfair

Harlem Hamalades: Oh I was on the road i mean its 2 things I will refuse to say, because everyone has there separate issues. but as far as Aj goes I spent alot of time with AJ when she was not at work and then actually living with her was heaven on earth as it was with Rae

Interviewer: Hmm ok so how was Aj sexually?

Harlem Hamalades: More open, and to be honest we did things that could've happened between me an rae.

Interviewer: such as?

Harlem Hamalades: Like the showers, or casual baths we had taken. things that Rae was not open to.

Interviewer: hmmm...

Interviewer: Elab...

Harlem Hamalades: Like i said we could've had sex in the shower, or in the tub. but she didnt venture down that road. nor was i persistent in, due to there being a lacking feeling of sexual interest.

Interviewer: hmmm ok i see

Interviewer: Well as far as looks and appeal ? Who was you favorite?

Interviewer: *your

Harlem Hamalades: Lmao, Put me under the scope huh? clever...

Harlem Hamalades: But I can say they were both equally sexy in their own right but given the both of them, wore make up. I cant choose but i cant speak off of personal highlights

Interviewer: Really? Why not sir?

Harlem Hamalades: Because one had a bob, and then went all natural. The other had longer hair and given she had her perms and shit its just not comparable in my eyes.

Harlem Hamalades: Because I have...well had my personal photos of both that highlighted both their individual beauty

Harlem Hamalades: Like its hard to land 2 great women, let alone 2 great beautiful women

Harlem Hamalades: Lost where you were on your mental clipboard?

Interviewer: No I had to get my coffee

Interviewer: Lol

Interviewer: Ok well... Anything you may have forgot or want to touch on as far as these two women?

Harlem Hamalades: the 2 things I refuse to speak on, but I will say this for any of the readers. My brown supra's are tied in with my Tattoo. both similar or matching with hers...And our dunks..which mines has suffered a terrible death

Interviewer: Hmm ok I see you have a strong bond with Rae? Why isnt she in the picture now?

Harlem Hamalades: Who's to say she isnt?

Interviewer: Hmm ok

Interviewer: So what is your relationship with these women like now?

Harlem Hamalades: I still hear from one, for some odd reason or another. I guess I am stuck wit her, Even when i try to get usain bolt ass nigga on her...or vice versa

Harlem Hamalades: The other...I dont let alone havent seen since b4 the last funeral I attended. No contact what so ever....

Interviewer: So how does that make you feel?

Harlem Hamalades: Not having contact with one?

Interviewer: yes

Harlem Hamalades: It really bothered me, to a point of depression and or utter thoughts of making life a light thought (Get It?). I snapped out of it and just took it for what it is...It is what it has to be

Harlem Hamalades: Not enough cream in your coffee over there?

Interviewer: Mmm hmm... So where did you see your self as far a future went with the either of the 2?

Interviewer: Lol! No I was trying to form the correct question...

Harlem Hamalades: One could've been the mother of my child, as of january 08. The other We damn near acted as if we were married but seems like someone committed themself to early before the marriage

Interviewer: hmmm

Harlem Hamalades: got alil quiet on me again

Interviewer: you didnt answer to the rest of the question?

Interviewer: i only got one reply when i asked of 2 people?

Harlem Hamalades: I answered

Harlem Hamalades: One could've been the mother of my child as of jan 08

Harlem Hamalades: the other...We damn near acted as if we were married but seems like someone committed themself to early before the marriage

Harlem Hamalades: An led up to another downfall

Interviewer: hmmm ok

Harlem Hamalades: both picked up their ball and went on to other courts

Interviewer: Wow!

Interviewer: So what part did you play in the seperations

Harlem Hamalades: Lol A major part depending on who you ask, but thats the price you pay for trying to please everyone.

Harlem Hamalades: rather it was trying to maintain a friendship while, in a relationship. when in actuality it could be one relationship was not finished in the first place.

Interviewer: Well thats good point...

Harlem Hamalades: Anything else or do i smell a closing coming soon to this?

Interviewer: Well i feel we have covered major ground so i think we are done till our next collaboration...Lol

Harlem Hamalades: Deadass, it is wat it gotta be. And given we both have this conversation what are you to do with this?
Interviewer: i hope this has been a pleasurable experience for you

Interviewer: umm probably post it right away...lol

Harlem Hamalades: Everything has some pleasure in it...Hope next time you come with more on blast questions...And I'll probably put this up on my blog. when i do return to it

Interviewer: now the ball is in your court?

Interviewer: on blast like what?

Harlem Hamalades: you tell me you were the creative one

Interviewer: indeed i felt i asked so blast leading questions but u got around them...

Harlem Hamalades: What can I say, Someone labeled it "My Dominican Charm"

Interviewer: m hmmm.